Your Xqisit Inspirational Quote
Tuesday 1st September, 2009

Creating a feeling of value & self-worth!
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“To live a creative life we must lose our fear of being wrong.“

~ Joseph Chilton Pearce

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A Sense Of Direction

Who Are You Really?

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Your Self Ideal

Dear Fellow Achiever

The first part of your self-concept is your self-ideal. This is the ideal image or picture you have of yourself, as if you were already the very best person you could possibly be.

Your self-ideal is made up of your wishes, hopes, dreams, goals, and fantasies about your perfect future life, combined with the qualities and virtues that you admire most in yourself and in other people.

Your self-ideal is a composite of the very best person you could imagine yourself being, living the very best life you could possibly live.

Develop Positive Role Models

In one study conducted some years ago, the researchers found many men and women who accomplished great things had–when they were young–been avid readers of the biographies and autobiographies of successful people.

It seems you have a natural tendency to identify with the hero or heroine in any story you read, watch, or hear. When you continuously immerse your mind in the stories of men and women who have accomplished wonderful things with their lives, you unconsciously identify with those characters and actually absorb their values, virtues, and qualities into your own personality.

Your Values Shape Your Personality

The values you choose to live by, and the way you define those values, shape and influence your personality and your achievements as much or more than any other single factor.

When you take the time to think through and develop absolute clarity about the key values and qualities you admire the most and wish the most to incorporate into yourself, you begin to shape and direct your whole personality and determine the results you achieve in the future.

Your Xqisit Inspirational Quote
Monday 31st August, 2009

Creating a feeling of value & self-worth!
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“You become what you think about.”

~ Earl Nightingale

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A Sense Of Direction

Single Handle Every Task . . .

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Dear Fellow Achiever

Eat that frog! Every bit of planning, prioritizing and organizing comes down to this simple concept.

Your ability to select your most important task, to begin it and then to concentrate on it single mindedly until it is complete is the key to high levels of performance and personal productivity.

The Requirement for Every Great Achievement

Every great achievement of mankind has been preceded by a long period of hard, concentrated work until the job was done. Single handling requires that once you begin, you keep working at the task, without diversion or distraction, until the job is 100% complete. You keep urging yourself onward by repeating the words “Back to work!” over and over whenever you are tempted to stop or do something else.

Reduce Your Time By 50%

By concentrating single mindedly on your most important task, you can reduce the time required to complete it by 50% or more.

It has been estimated that the tendency to start and stop a task, to pick it up, put it down and come back to it can increase the time necessary to complete the task by as much as 500%.

Each time you return to the task, you have to familiarize yourself with where you were when you stopped and what you still have to do. You have to overcome inertia and get yourself going again. You have to develop momentum and get into a productive work rhythm.

Your Xqisit Inspirational Quote
Sunday 30th August, 2009

Creating a feeling of value & self-worth!
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“If you really want something, you can figure out how to make it happen.”

~ Cher

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A Sense Of Direction

Be An Optimist at All Times . . .

Dear Fellow Achiever

Everyone wants to be physically healthy. You want to be mentally healthy as well. The true measure of “mental fitness” is how optimistic you are about yourself and your life.

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In today’s message, you learn how to control your thinking in very specific ways so that you feel terrific about yourself and your situation, no matter what happens.

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Control Your Reactions and Responses

There are three basic differences in the reactions of optimists and pessimists. The first difference is that the optimist sees a setback as temporary, while the pessimist sees it as permanent. The optimist sees an unfortunate event, such as an order that falls through or a sales call that fails, as a temporary event, something that is limited in time and that has no real impact on the future. The pessimist, on the other hand, sees negative events as permanent, as part of life and destiny.

Isolate the Incident

The second difference between the optimist and the pessimist is that the optimist sees difficulties as specific, while the pessimist sees them as pervasive. This means that when things go wrong for the optimist, he looks at the event as an isolated incident largely disconnected from other things that are going on in his life.

See Setbacks as Temporary Events

For example, if something you were counting on failed to materialize and you interpreted it to yourself as being an unfortunate event, but something that happens in the course of life and business, you would be reacting like an optimist. The pessimist, on the other hand, sees dissappointments as being pervasive. That is, to him they are indications of a problem or shortcoming that pervades every area of life.

Don’t Take Failure Personally

The third difference between optimists and pessimists is that optimists see events as external, while pessimists interpret events as personal. When things go wrong, the optimist will tend to see the setback as resulting from external factors over which one has little control.

If the optimist is cut off in traffic, for example, instead of getting angry or upset, he will simply downgrade the importance of the event by saying something like, “Oh, well, I guess that person is just having a bad day.”

The pessimist on the other hand, has a tendency to take everything personally. If the pessimist is cut off in traffic, he will react as though the other driver has deliberately acted to upset and frustrate him.

Remain Calm and Objective

The hallmark of the fully mature, fully functioning, self-actualizing personality is the ability to be objective and unemotional when caught up in the inevitable storms of daily life. The superior person has the ability to continue talking to himself in a positive and optimistic way, keeping his mind calm, clear and completely under control. The mature personality is more relaxed and aware and capable of interpreting events more realistically and less emotionally than is the immature personality. As a result, the mature person exerts a far greater sense of control and influence over his environment, and is far less likely to be angry, upset, or distracted.

Take the Long View

Look upon the inevitable setbacks that you face as being temporary, specific and external. View the negative situation as a single event that is not connected to other potential events and that is caused largely by external factors over which you can have little control. Simply refuse to see the event as being in any way permanent, pervasive or indicative of personal incompetence of inability.

Resolve to think like an optimist, no matter what happens. You may not be able to control events but you can control the way you react to them.

Action Exercises

Now, here are three actions you can take immediately to put these into action.

First, remind yourself continually that setbacks are only temporary, they will soon be past and nothing is as serious as you think it is.

Second, look upon each problem as a specific event, not connected to other events and not indicative of a pattern of any kind. Deal with it and get on with your life.

Third, recognize that when things go wrong, they are usually caused by a variety of external events. Say to yourself, “What can’t be cured must be endured,” and then get back to thinking about your goals.

Knowledge and know-how are the keys to the 21st century.

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Dedicated To Your Success!

Live with passion,

Gerald Alexander

Personal Development & Leadership Coach

P.S. Take control of your life TODAY!

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Always believe in yourself and your dreams!

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Appreciate The Journey

Live your life each day as you would climb a mountain … an occassional glance towards the summit keeps the goal in mind … but many beautiful scenes are to be observed from each new vintage point.

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Enjoy browsing – and here’s to making 2009 YOUR best year yet!

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Xqisit Lifestyles
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If we did all the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves.

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Dedicated To Your Success!

Live with passion,

Gerald Alexander

Personal Development & Leadership Coach

P.S. Take control of your life TODAY!

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Building an Internet Business is the Fastest Way to Personal Wealth today.

Collect your FREE COPY of “The Perfect Business”.

=> http://giburl.com/x57zbb

Robert Kiyosaki will reveal to you a simple business plan, that you can start part-time and create immediate cash flow.

* * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *

Always believe in yourself and your dreams!

* * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *

Appreciate The Journey

Live your life each day as you would climb a mountain … an occassional glance towards the summit keeps the goal in mind … but many beautiful scenes are to be observed from each new vintage point.

Sponsoring this blog: http://www.my.ws/xqisit1

Enjoy browsing – and here’s to making 2009 YOUR best year yet!

BEGIN HERE

The Success Decision: How to Decide to Be Rich!

Xqisit Lifestyles
Website: www.ASENSEOFDIRECTION.co.uk
Tel: 07940 220 283
Email: gerald@xqisit-lifestyles.com

If we did all the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves.

MAKE YOURSELF MORE VALUABLE!

I’d appreciate your help in making this a better website in 2009. What additional services would you like to see on this website? Please leave your suggestions in the comment box below.

Remember: If you have enjoyed this inspirational message, pass it on to a few of your friends and business associates, and if you have any comments about this message, PLEASE — leave them here on my blog — it’s important you let me know your thoughts!

(c) Copyright, Gerald Alexander & Xqisitlifestyles.com (R) 2009

Gerald Alexander

http://Xqisit-Lifestyles.co.uk (R)
11 Jura Quadrant, Netherton, Wishaw
Lanarkshire, ML2 0TD, United Kingdom
gerald@xqisit-lifestyles.com

www.asenseofdirection.co.uk (R)

Any purchase you make from this website is fully backed, no-hassle, satisfaction guarantee… so you have nothing to lose but your old ways! Take advantage now.

CLICK HERE

After all, where you will be on 29 August 2010 will be a direct result of the choices you make today.

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Your Xqisit Inspirational Quote
Friday 28th August, 2009

Creating a feeling of value & self-worth!
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“To live a creative life we must lose our fear of being wrong.“

~ Joseph Chilton Pearce

____________________________________________________

A Sense Of Direction

Who Are You Really?

* * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *

Collect your FREE COPY of “The Perfect Business”.

=> http://giburl.com/x57zbb

Robert Kiyosaki will reveal to you a simple business plan, that you can start part-time and create immediate cash flow.

* * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *

Your Self Ideal

Dear Fellow Achiever

The first part of your self-concept is your self-ideal. This is the ideal image or picture you have of yourself, as if you were already the very best person you could possibly be.

Your self-ideal is made up of your wishes, hopes, dreams, goals, and fantasies about your perfect future life, combined with the qualities and virtues that you admire most in yourself and in other people.

Your self-ideal is a composite of the very best person you could imagine yourself being, living the very best life you could possibly live.

Develop Positive Role Models

In one study conducted some years ago, the researchers found many men and women who accomplished great things had–when they were young–been avid readers of the biographies and autobiographies of successful people.

It seems you have a natural tendency to identify with the hero or heroine in any story you read, watch, or hear. When you continuously immerse your mind in the stories of men and women who have accomplished wonderful things with their lives, you unconsciously identify with those characters and actually absorb their values, virtues, and qualities into your own personality.

Your Values Shape Your Personality

The values you choose to live by, and the way you define those values, shape and influence your personality and your achievements as much or more than any other single factor.

When you take the time to think through and develop absolute clarity about the key values and qualities you admire the most and wish the most to incorporate into yourself, you begin to shape and direct your whole personality and determine the results you achieve in the future.