Your Xqisit Inspirational Quote
Friday 31st October, 2008

Creating a feeling of value & self-worth !
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“It is preoccupation with possession, more than anything else, that prevents men from living freely and nobly.”

~ Bertrand Russell

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A SENSE OF DIRECTION

The Law of Attraction!

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Dear Fellow Achiever

Achieving your dreams entails more than just doing the right things and saying the right words. It has a lot to do with your thoughts, and the feelings associated with them.

Any thought you project into the world will bring about a specific result. That’s the power of the law of attraction.

That’s why you should be very aware of what you’re thinking about most of the time. Have you had days when you seem to run out of luck, or days when everything just seems perfect? You’ve been creating those circumstances… through your own thoughts and feelings!

If you’re not careful, any negative thought that comes to your mind might just come true! Similarly, any positive thought you project would bring good results.

The law of attraction is surprisingly powerful. It attracts to you the vibrations you give away, whether positive or negative.

Start making this law work for you!

A surefire way to get anything you ever desire in life is to change the way you think. If your life is not as fulfilling as you would like it to be, then there must be something wrong about the way you view things.

Now is the time to change that! Make the law of attraction your passport to success!

Start to think well about yourself and the things that you can do. Take away all the negative thoughts ruling your being.

A word of warning!

The law of attraction is surprisingly accurate. It’s vital that you use the law of attraction in the right manner.

Just like fire, you can use it to cook food or burn a house. If you use it the right way, you will reap the benefits. But if you mishandle it, you will attract your own downfall.

If you use the law of attraction today, you will enjoy all its benefits now and in the future. The law of attraction is simple to understand; yet its effects are astounding!

Would you do the right thing and utilize the law of attraction to its fullest advantage? Or would you allow such a powerful force to go to waste or even contribute to your defeat?

The law of attraction will never stop existing in the universe. Its effect on your life will never change, so its better to use it properly or suffer the consequences!

And here’s the best part:

Mastering the law of attraction is easy with the right guide!

To ensure that you get the most out of this force, we have created a comprehensive guide on how to master it and make it your ally. This law is constant. This force is fundamental and never changes. The only variable factor in the equation is you.

To Your Success!

Gerald Alexander

P.S. Be honest with yourself as you look yourself in the eye – Do you have any reason to improve the quality of your life? Are you living your life on purpose or are you just here on this planet for something to do?

Create your own powerful financial system that works for you with the help of XQISIT LIFESTYLES™ and escape from debt. For more information on The Mystery Of Money Is Revealed.

Email: ‘Financial Independance’ to: gerald@xqisit-lifestyles.com.

Learn to use your intentions to manifest prosperity and abundance in your life.

Start today, and make one powerful decision for ‘Your future?’

Xqisit Lifestyles
Website: www.ASENSEOFDIRECTION.co.uk
Tel: 07940 220 283
Email: gerald@xqisit-lifestyles.com

If we did all the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves.

MAKE YOURSELF MORE VALUABLE!

Remember: If you have enjoyed this inspirational message, pass it on to a few of your friends and business associates, and if you have any comments about this message, PLEASE — leave them here on my blog — it’s important you let me know your thoughts!

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RECOMMENDED LINKS
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www.liveyourdream.com

www.theAchieversEdge.com

www.ASenseOfDirection.com

www.ADegreeOfDifference.com

www.NLPSecret.com

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Gerald Alexander

http://Xqisit-Lifestyles.co.uk (R)
11 Jura Quadrant, Netherton, Wishaw
Lanarkshire, ML2 0TD, United Kingdom
gerald@xqisit-lifestyles.com

www.asenseofdirection.co.uk (R)

Any purchase you make from this website is fully backed, no-hassle, satisfaction guarantee… so you have nothing to loose but your old ways! Take advantage now.

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After all, where you will be on the 31st October 2009 is your choice!

Your Xqisit Inspirational Quote
Thursday 30th October, 2008

Creating a feeling of value & self-worth !
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“The best way to succeed is to discover what you love and find a way to offer it to others.”

~ Oprah Winfrey

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A SENSE OF DIRECTION

Design your future!

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Dear Fellow Achiever

Live the life that you imagine.

“Without vision people perish.” This well known phrase comes from proverb 29:18 and still holds true today as it did then. What if you don’t clearly know what it is that you want…?

If you don’t know where you’re heading – you will never get there.

We all only have 24 hours of Self-Management. One of my friends recently returned from a holiday in America, it was his 40th birthday. He shared with me a realization he experienced during a visit to a bookstore .

He said, “Gerald, there was several shelves of books by one author.” How could just one person could write so many books.

He then said, “I found out that she (the author) was only 45 years old with 5 children.”

What it comes down to is, ‘How do you fill your time?’

Do you schedule your life around the television…? Other people…?

We are not all equally gifted and none of us are the same. We have eash been blessed with many wonderful talents and abilities to be used inservicing others.

What are your talents and abilities?

And more so… What are you doing with them?

In sharing this story with a couple last week, their response was, ‘Put our feet-up and watch Eastenders.’

How have you designed the rest of your life with the talents and abilities you have?

To Your Success!

Gerald Alexander

P.S. Be honest with yourself as you look yourself in the eye – Do you have any reason to improve the quality of your life? Are you living your life on purpose or are you just here on this planet for something to do?

Create your own powerful financial system that works for you with the help of XQISIT LIFESTYLES™ and escape from debt. For more information on The Mystery Of Money Is Revealed.

Email: ‘Financial Independance’ to: gerald@xqisit-lifestyles.com.

Learn to use your intentions to manifest prosperity and abundance in your life.

Start today, and make one powerful decision for ‘Your future?’

Xqisit Lifestyles
Website: www.ASENSEOFDIRECTION.co.uk
Tel: 07940 220 283
Email: gerald@xqisit-lifestyles.com

If we did all the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves.

MAKE YOURSELF MORE VALUABLE!

Remember: If you have enjoyed this inspirational message, pass it on to a few of your friends and business associates, and if you have any comments about this message, PLEASE — leave them here on my blog — it’s important you let me know your thoughts!

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RECOMMENDED LINKS
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www.liveyourdream.com

www.theAchieversEdge.com

www.ASenseOfDirection.com

www.ADegreeOfDifference.com

www.NLPSecret.com

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Gerald Alexander

http://Xqisit-Lifestyles.co.uk (R)
11 Jura Quadrant, Netherton, Wishaw
Lanarkshire, ML2 0TD, United Kingdom
gerald@xqisit-lifestyles.com

www.asenseofdirection.co.uk (R)

Any purchase you make from this website is fully backed, no-hassle, satisfaction guarantee… so you have nothing to loose but your old ways! Take advantage now.

CLICK HERE

After all, where you will be on the 30th October 2009 is your choice!

Your Xqisit Inspirational Quote
Wednesday 29th October, 2008

Creating a feeling of value & self-worth !
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“Success comes to those who persist.”

~ Gerald Alexander

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A Sense Of Direction

Emotional Intelligence (EQ)

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Dear Fellow Achiever

Emotional intelligence includes self-awareness, emotional control, persistence, and the ability to motivate oneself. It also includes an awareness of one’s surroundings, empathy, and social deftness. Much of the power of EQ comes from self-awareness and the ability to control emotions (or at least the behavioural outcome of emotions). People who are self-aware have a greater probability of dealing with their emotions. If we know we are angry, at least we can decide whether to deal with it or whether to let it show to others. If we aren’t aware of the emotion, it is more likely to go unchecked.

Awareness is a key ingredient in responsibility. To act responsibly, a person must first be aware of their situation and feelings and then exercise their power to control the response.

Self-control is a critical leadership skill. Leaders are generally able to plan and work at a task over a longer time span than those they lead. They have the ability to envision a distant end result or goal, and their commitment to that goal enables them to do what it takes to reach it.

In our October 2008 course ‘A Sense Of Direction‘ students will be given a specific exercise to discover ‘why’ they act and behave the way they do to given situations in their daily life. Are you emotionally intelligent to the way you behave? Do you feel responsible for the image in the mirror? To get more information on upcoming events or to have a presentation held at your place of business.

Email: gerald@xqisit-lifestyles.com

10 Tips To Power Up Your Presentation Skills

Presenting in front of an audience is not everyone’s cup of tea but with the correct advice, guidelines and practice it can be enjoyable for both the presenter and the audience. Preparation is everything and it is essential that you know your subject matter. The more prepared you are, the more confident you will feel which makes for a better presentation.

Follow these simple tips and your presentations will be fun, interesting and rewarding for both you and your audience.

1. Keep your PowerPoint visual – Keep them clean, not too wordy and relative to the presentation. They should just be a visual representation of the subject. The audience isn’t there to read your slides; they are there to listen to you present.
2. Engage with the audience - Make eye contact with everyone throughout the room. If you don’t do this then you aren’t engaging the audience, you are just talking to yourself. Each person should feel like you are speaking to them personally.
3. Deliver with a passion – It’s amazing how catchy enthusiasm is. If your voice is expressive and your gestures animated, you will appear confident and passionate.
4. Make them laugh – Have some fun! Although you want to educate your audience, you need to make them laugh too. In essence, it keeps the audience alert and they’ll learn more from you than someone who just educates.
5. Ask questions – People hate it when they get talked at, so don’t do it. You need to interact with your audience and create a conversation. The easiest way to do this is to ask them questions as well as letting them ask you questions.
6. Be human –Simply be truthful to your audience. Telling the truth and being human will earn you respect and people will trust you for your honesty. Putting yourself on a pedestal and being super-human can work against you. So tell them how it is.
7. Don’t over prepare – Of course, you need to be prepared enough to know what you are going to talk about but just enough to make sure your presentation flows naturally and not sound memorized. Experienced speakers will tell you not to rehearse your presentation too much because then it won’t sound natural.
8. Show some movement – Keep yourself moving. People will stay engaged if you are animated. If you have a large audience or big stage make sure you spend an equal amount of time in front of all of your audience. Being animated also helps display a sense of passion too.
9. Watch what you say - You may not notice when you say words like “uhm” or “ah”, but the audience does. If you use them a lot when presenting it can get quite irritating; so much that some members of the audience will probably count how many times you say these useless words and tell you!
10. Don’t read directly from your notes – One of the most common mistakes made by first time speakers is to stand up and read directly from notes. If a speaker is looking down at a page of notes it does not allow them to engage eye contact with the audience to hold their interest. As alternative, bullet point key messages that you wish to get across on cue cards to keep you on track and it won’t sound so scripted.

To Your Success!

Gerald Alexander

P.S. Be honest with yourself as you look yourself in the eye – Do you have any reason to improve the quality of your life? Are you living your life on purpose or are you just here on this planet for something to do?

Create your own powerful financial system that works for you with the help of XQISIT LIFESTYLES™ and escape from debt. For more information on The Mystery Of Money Is Revealed.

Email: ‘Financial Independance’ to: gerald@xqisit-lifestyles.com.

Learn to use your intentions to manifest prosperity and abundance in your life.

Start today, and make one powerful decision for ‘Your future?’

Xqisit Lifestyles
Website: www.ASENSEOFDIRECTION.co.uk
Tel: 07940 220 283
Email: gerald@xqisit-lifestyles.com

If we did all the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves.

MAKE YOURSELF MORE VALUABLE!

Remember: If you have enjoyed this inspirational message, pass it on to a few of your friends and business associates, and if you have any comments about this message, PLEASE — leave them here on my blog — it’s important you let me know your thoughts!

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RECOMMENDED LINKS
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www.liveyourdream.com

www.theAchieversEdge.com

www.ASenseOfDirection.com

www.ADegreeOfDifference.com

www.NLPSecret.com

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(c) Copyright, Gerald Alexander & Xqisitlifestyles.com (R) 2008

Gerald Alexander

http://Xqisit-Lifestyles.co.uk (R)
11 Jura Quadrant, Netherton, Wishaw
Lanarkshire, ML2 0TD, United Kingdom
gerald@xqisit-lifestyles.com

www.asenseofdirection.co.uk (R)

Any purchase you make from this website is fully backed, no-hassle, satisfaction guarantee… so you have nothing to loose but your old ways! Take advantage now.

CLICK HERE

After all, where you will be on the 29th October 2009 is your choice!

Your Xqisit Inspirational Quote
Tuesday 28th October, 2008

Creating a feeling of value & self-worth !
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“Wealth is the ability to fully experience life.“

~ Henry David Thoreau
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A Sense Of Direction

The Two Schools Of Thought

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Dear Fellow Achiever

There are two schools of thought about strengths and weaknesses.

One says, if you work on your weaknesses, you’ll be so complete, you’ll be unstoppable.

The other says, work on your strengths and have someone else do the things you either don’t particularly enjoy or the things you’re simply not that good at.

I will tell you without a doubt, working on your weaknesses is one of the most foolish things you can do. It is not only unproductive, but it costs you money and time. Here, let’s take a closer look:

One, when you focus on your weaknesses, you’re always going to be in a state of conflict and dissatisfaction with yourself. And nothing is more of a crushing blow to your self-esteem and feelings of accomplishment, than feeling dissatisfied with yourself and your performance.

I’m not saying to stick your head in the sand and ignore your weaknesses, I’m just saying that focusing on them isn’t going to get you anywhere.

Two, the amount of time you will spend trying to get better at something you’re simply not good at, is time you have wasted working on something else you’re extremely good at. Would you rather spend 3 hours doing your landscaping, for example, when you’re not particularly good at it, or would you rather spend 3 hours educating yourself further in your professional field or doing something else you thrive on?

Which of those two activities makes you feel better and allows you to accomplish more?

And lastly, the by-product of what we just talked about basically comes down to opportunity cost. How much would it cost you to hire someone to do that landscaping, or pressure-washing, or whatever — versus how much you can make applying yourself to the things you’re good at?

This just comes down to pure common sense and a willingness and open-mindedness to do things differently. And doing things differently is the ONLY way to shift your earnings, and your mindset, upwards.

Plus, life’s too short to do the things you don’t like. And since you’re in control of your own life, why would you make yourself do things any other way?

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Always Believe in Yourself and Your Dreams!

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Your PERSONAL POWER is your ability to ACT!

Do something . . .

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http://www-self-improvement-books.com

To Your Success!

Gerald Alexander

Call me today – 07940 220 283

http://www.ASenseOfDirection.co.uk/

P.S. If you know a friend, family member, or associate you think may benefit from this information, send this to them immediately.

Comments? Leave them here on my blog – - I want to know what you’re thinking: www.XQISITLIFESTYLES.com

Xqisit Lifestyles
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Tel: 07940 220 283
Email: gerald@xqisit-lifestyles.com

If we did all the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves.

MAKE YOURSELF MORE VALUABLE!

Remember: If you have enjoyed this inspirational message, pass it on to a few of your friends and business associates, and if you have any comments about this message, PLEASE — leave them here on my blog — it’s important you let me know your thoughts!

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RECOMMENDED LINKS
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www.liveyourdream.com

www.theAchieversEdge.com

www.ASenseOfDirection.com

www.ADegreeOfDifference.com

www.NLPSecret.com

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(c) Copyright, Gerald Alexander & Xqisitlifestyles.com (R) 2008

Gerald Alexander

http://Xqisit-Lifestyles.co.uk (R)
11 Jura Quadrant, Netherton, Wishaw
Lanarkshire, ML2 0TD, United Kingdom
gerald@xqisit-lifestyles.com

www.asenseofdirection.co.uk (R)

Any purchase you make from this website is fully backed, no-hassle, satisfaction guarantee… so you have nothing to loose but your old ways! Take advantage now.

CLICK HERE

After all, where you will be on the 28th October 2009 is your choice!

Your Xqisit Inspirational Quote
Monday 27th October, 2008

Creating a feeling of value & self-worth !
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“If you have grown, if you have contributed, if you have loved, if you have been loved – - then you have lived.“

~ M. Burkill
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A Sense Of Direction

Are You A Mr. Assertive Or A Mr. Agressive?

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Dear Fellow Achiever

One of the most essential skills needed in handling people and situations is assertiveness. You are assertive if you are clear in letting others know about your expectations without any anxiety or hesitation. This is one area of development to be focused on when coaching executives. Many in management sectors confuse ‘assertiveness’ with ‘aggressiveness.’

What are some of the differences between assertiveness and aggressiveness?

If you are assertiive you ask people of what you want directly and openly. There is an air of reassurance and confident around you at all times. While you do ask for your wants and preferences, you make sure to respect other people’s rights and you do not expect others to know what is on your mind without expressing yourself.

If you are aggressive you try to get what you want in someway or the other and you may often cause bad feelings in others. You may resort to different tactics – request, beg, entice, persuade, manipulate or threaten as your means to get what you want. In the process you do not respect other’s rights or feelings. You do not even look into situations that may get both sides what they want, such as win-win situations.

Aggressive behavior might help one to achieve immediate or short-term results but the longer outcome is a steady decline in performance due to unpopularity and non-cooperation from others who are often victims of aggressive or bullying behavior. With the result the aggressive person ends up being over stressed and depressed. Mr. Aggressive is often not supported by his colleagues and is therefore unable to reach his goals in his career.

Mr. Assertive is able to lead, direct and motivate without much of huff and puff. Since he already is clear about what he wants and is able to convince others without hurting their sentiments and feelings he is popular among employees and he gets good cooperation from his colleagues.

An assertive person is able to give unequivocal direction and leadership through his positive motivational messages to his team members. As a result he is able to achieve his goals sooner and rises up the corporate ladder easily.

Body language is an important factor of assertiveness. You could keep the following in mind if you would like to develop assertiveness:

• A warm smile or a friendly expression shows respect to your listener
• Maintaining eye contact shows that you are actively listening to the other person
• A relaxed and straight stance should be adopted during communications
• Your hands should be kept in an open position to show candidness.

Assertiveness in appropriate situations is bound to win you friends and supporters in your career and in society.

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Your PERSONAL POWER is your ability to ACT!

Do something . . .

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http://www-self-improvement-books.com

To Your Success!

Gerald Alexander

Call me today – 07940 220 283

http://www.ASenseOfDirection.co.uk/

P.S. If you know a friend, family member, or associate you think may benefit from this information, send this to them immediately.

Comments? Leave them here on my blog – - I want to know what you’re thinking: www.XQISITLIFESTYLES.com

Xqisit Lifestyles
Website: www.ASENSEOFDIRECTION.co.uk
Tel: 07940 220 283
Email: gerald@xqisit-lifestyles.com

If we did all the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves.

MAKE YOURSELF MORE VALUABLE!

Remember: If you have enjoyed this inspirational message, pass it on to a few of your friends and business associates, and if you have any comments about this message, PLEASE — leave them here on my blog — it’s important you let me know your thoughts!

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RECOMMENDED LINKS
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www.liveyourdream.com

www.theAchieversEdge.com

www.ASenseOfDirection.com

www.ADegreeOfDifference.com

www.NLPSecret.com

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(c) Copyright, Gerald Alexander & Xqisitlifestyles.com (R) 2008

Gerald Alexander

http://Xqisit-Lifestyles.co.uk (R)
11 Jura Quadrant, Netherton, Wishaw
Lanarkshire, ML2 0TD, United Kingdom
gerald@xqisit-lifestyles.com

www.asenseofdirection.co.uk (R)

Any purchase you make from this website is fully backed, no-hassle, satisfaction guarantee… so you have nothing to loose but your old ways! Take advantage now.

CLICK HERE

After all, where you will be on the 27th October 2009 is your choice!

Your Xqisit Inspirational Quote
Friday 24th October, 2008

Creating a feeling of value & self-worth !
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“Goal-setting has immense power which can be unlocked once you know where you are going and know what you want!”

~ Gerald Alexander

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A Sense Of Direction

TAKING ACTION!

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Dear Fellow Achiever

If all you had to do was think about what you wanted and it magically showed up a few moments later, everyone would be driving a Ferrari, living in a mansion house, wearing expensive jewellery and sleeping with beautiful lovers. It would also be chaos! That’s why the universe puts one more step in-between you thinking of what you want and actually getting it – the action step.

Some people sit around and daydream without ever doing anything. However, by creating a vivid representation of how you ideally want to live your life and focusing on it every day, you will become motivated to take action and you will know where you are going.

Your personal power is your ability to act!

http://www-self-improvement-books.com

To Your Success!

Gerald Alexander

Call me today – 07940 220 283

http://www.ASenseOfDirection.co.uk/

P.S. If you know a friend, family member, or associate you think may benefit from this information, send this to them immediately.

Comments? Leave them here on my blog – - I want to know what you’re thinking: www.XQISITLIFESTYLES.com

Xqisit Lifestyles
Website: www.ASENSEOFDIRECTION.co.uk
Tel: 07940 220 283
Email: gerald@xqisit-lifestyles.com

If we did all the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves.

MAKE YOURSELF MORE VALUABLE!

Remember: If you have enjoyed this inspirational message, pass it on to a few of your friends and business associates, and if you have any comments about this message, PLEASE — leave them here on my blog — it’s important you let me know your thoughts!

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RECOMMENDED LINKS
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www.liveyourdream.com

www.theAchieversEdge.com

www.ASenseOfDirection.com

www.ADegreeOfDifference.com

www.NLPSecret.com

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(c) Copyright, Gerald Alexander & Xqisitlifestyles.com (R) 2008

Gerald Alexander

http://Xqisit-Lifestyles.co.uk (R)
11 Jura Quadrant, Netherton, Wishaw
Lanarkshire, ML2 0TD, United Kingdom
gerald@xqisit-lifestyles.com

www.asenseofdirection.co.uk (R)

Any purchase you make from this website is fully backed, no-hassle, satisfaction guarantee… so you have nothing to loose but your old ways! Take advantage now.

CLICK HERE

After all, where you will be on the 24th October 2009 is your choice!

Your Xqisit Inspirational Quote
Thursday 23rd October, 2008

Creating a feeling of value & self-worth !
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“When you’re through changing you’re through. Change is a process, not a goal; a journey not a destination.”

~ Robert Kriegal

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A Sense Of Direction

Why you need an action plan to defeat procrastination

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Dear Fellow Achiever

Procrastination is the main reason people fail to live richer lives. If you haven’t been reaching your goals, you may need to make a greater commitment. And the only reliable measure of commitment is action. When you delay getting started on a job or fail to complete a job you’ve already started, always ask yourself why you’re not working on it:

1. I can’t do it and I don’t want to do it.
2. I can do it but I don’t want to.
3. I want to do it but I can’t.
4. I can do it and I want to.

If you’re honest with yourself, you can probably get started on the fourth type of projects today. If you do, you will have taken the first step toward defeating the monster of procrastination.

Put your favorite inspirational sayings where you can see them. Let people know when you don’t want to be disturbed. Think about the things in your environment that help you get into the flow of your work. What things distract you or make you want to postpone a job? How can you design or rearrange your environment to eliminate causes of procrastination?

http://www-self-improvement-books.com

To Your Success!

Gerald Alexander

Call me today – 07940 220 283

http://www.ASenseOfDirection.co.uk/

P.S. If you know a friend, family member, or associate you think may benefit from this information, send this to them immediately.

Comments? Leave them here on my blog – - I want to know what you’re thinking: www.XQISITLIFESTYLES.com

Xqisit Lifestyles
Website: www.ASENSEOFDIRECTION.co.uk
Tel: 07940 220 283
Email: gerald@xqisit-lifestyles.com

If we did all the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves.

MAKE YOURSELF MORE VALUABLE!

Remember: If you have enjoyed this inspirational message, pass it on to a few of your friends and business associates, and if you have any comments about this message, PLEASE — leave them here on my blog — it’s important you let me know your thoughts!

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RECOMMENDED LINKS
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www.liveyourdream.com

www.theAchieversEdge.com

www.ASenseOfDirection.com

www.ADegreeOfDifference.com

www.NLPSecret.com

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(c) Copyright, Gerald Alexander & Xqisitlifestyles.com (R) 2008

Gerald Alexander

http://Xqisit-Lifestyles.co.uk (R)
11 Jura Quadrant, Netherton, Wishaw
Lanarkshire, ML2 0TD, United Kingdom
gerald@xqisit-lifestyles.com

www.asenseofdirection.co.uk (R)

Any purchase you make from this website is fully backed, no-hassle, satisfaction guarantee… so you have nothing to loose but your old ways! Take advantage now.

CLICK HERE

After all, where you will be on the 23rd October 2009 is your choice!

Your Xqisit Inspirational Quote
Wednesday 22nd October, 2008

Creating a feeling of value & self-worth !
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“You are the embodiment of the information you choose to accept and act upon. To change your circumstances you need to change your thinking and subsequent action.“

~ Adlin Sinclair

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A Sense Of Direction

How Much Free-Will Do You Really Have in Life?

Dear Fellow Achiever

There is an overwhelming amount of self-help books on the market; hundreds of success seminars exist and still, every year, our society continues to experience more and more problems. This is certainly the case when you look at recent statistics on divorce, health and money related issues, the last one topping the list.

If you have free-will why would you decide to lose your job, undergo a bankruptcy, have an accident or create any other negative circumstances?

There must be something here that is missing . . .

Some people claim that they control everything in their lives by free-will. There are others that believe that free-will does not exist, as everything is predetermined by God or some form of higher power.

What do you believe?

If you observe how people govern — or fail to govern — their lives, it turns out that we all register on various points along the scale, starting with free-will and self-determination on one end and ranging to no free-will and ruled by God or some other higher power on the other end.

Everybody claims to know his or her own place on the free-will continuum. This is really interesting as it demonstrates somehow that either most of us simply don’t know how much free-will we exercise, or that there is simply no basic rule applicable.

Exercising free-will means that your decision is not based on any circumstances or influences from the past or future. Nor is your free-will based on moral issues — and absolutely not on personal preferences.

When you closely examine your decisions you will soon see that they are indeed based mostly on existing facts and personal preferences. So how much free-will do you really exercise? Your success is not dependent on how much money you have, where you live or if you are in a relationship.

Success is not feeling happy; it is feeling happy about who you are.

When setting up your intentions and dreams, try to get to the point of what you really want, and not what you think you need. Think about what would be the highest purpose you could fulfill in your lifetime. Imagine — beyond anything that you may think is possible!

When you start doing this, magic happens in your life!

To Your Success!

Gerald Alexander

Call me today – 07940 220 283

http://www.ASenseOfDirection.co.uk/

P.S. If you know a friend, family member, or associate you think may benefit from this information, send this to them immediately.

Comments? Leave them here on my blog – - I want to know what you’re thinking: www.XQISITLIFESTYLES.com

Xqisit Lifestyles
Website: www.ASENSEOFDIRECTION.co.uk
Tel: 07940 220 283
Email: gerald@xqisit-lifestyles.com

If we did all the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves.

MAKE YOURSELF MORE VALUABLE!

Remember: If you have enjoyed this inspirational message, pass it on to a few of your friends and business associates, and if you have any comments about this message, PLEASE — leave them here on my blog — it’s important you let me know your thoughts!

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RECOMMENDED LINKS
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www.liveyourdream.com

www.theAchieversEdge.com

www.ASenseOfDirection.com

www.ADegreeOfDifference.com

www.NLPSecret.com

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(c) Copyright, Gerald Alexander & Xqisitlifestyles.com (R) 2008

Gerald Alexander

http://Xqisit-Lifestyles.co.uk (R)
11 Jura Quadrant, Netherton, Wishaw
Lanarkshire, ML2 0TD, United Kingdom
gerald@xqisit-lifestyles.com

www.asenseofdirection.co.uk (R)

Any purchase you make from this website is fully backed, no-hassle, satisfaction guarantee… so you have nothing to loose but your old ways! Take advantage now.

CLICK HERE

After all, where you will be on the 22nd October 2009 is your choice!

Your Xqisit Inspirational Quote
Tuesday 21th October, 2008

Creating a feeling of value & self-worth !
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“Be sure you put your feet in the right place, then stand firm.”

~ Abraham Lincoln

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A Sense Of Direction

PORTRAIT OF AN ACHIEVER

Dear Fellow Achiever

PLEASE ACCEPT THIS CARD AS MY SMALL GIFT TO YOU. SAVE IT TO REMIND YOU TO NEVER GIVE UP ON YOUR DREAMS.

This information has assisted my PERSONAL SUCCESS.

PORTRAIT OF AN ACHIEVER

Failed in Business – Bankruptcy, 1831

Defeated for Legislature, 1832

Sweetheart/Fiancée Dies, 1835

Nervous Breakdown, 1836

Defeated in Election, 1836

Defeated for U.S. Congress, 1843

Defeated again for U.S. Congress 1846

Defeated once again for U.S. Congress, 1848

Defeated for U.S. Senate, 1855

Defeated for U.S Vice President, 1856

Defeated again for U.S. Senate, 1858

ABRAHAM LINCOLN
Elected President of the U.S.A., 1860

“You can not fail…unless you quit!”

You may ask yourself what makes people exceptional?

Exceptional people have an understanding of how the world works and the universal laws that govern mankind. They know that they will not be denied greatness if they continue moving forward towards their goal regardless of obstacles! Until next time, this is Gerald Alexander wishing you a productive and prosperous day!

To Your Success!

Gerald Alexander

Call me today – 07940 220 283

http://www.ASenseOfDirection.co.uk/

P.S. If you know a friend, family member, or associate you think may benefit from this information, send this to them immediately.

Comments? Leave them here on my blog – - I want to know what you’re thinking: www.XQISITLIFESTYLES.com

Xqisit Lifestyles
Website: www.ASENSEOFDIRECTION.co.uk
Tel: 07940 220 283
Email: gerald@xqisit-lifestyles.com

If we did all the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves.

MAKE YOURSELF MORE VALUABLE!

Remember: If you have enjoyed this inspirational message, pass it on to a few of your friends and business associates, and if you have any comments about this message, PLEASE — leave them here on my blog — it’s important you let me know your thoughts!

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RECOMMENDED LINKS
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www.liveyourdream.com

www.theAchieversEdge.com

www.ASenseOfDirection.com

www.ADegreeOfDifference.com

www.NLPSecret.com

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(c) Copyright, Gerald Alexander & Xqisitlifestyles.com (R) 2008

Gerald Alexander

http://Xqisit-Lifestyles.co.uk (R)
11 Jura Quadrant, Netherton, Wishaw
Lanarkshire, ML2 0TD, United Kingdom
gerald@xqisit-lifestyles.com

www.asenseofdirection.co.uk (R)

Any purchase you make from this website is fully backed, no-hassle, satisfaction guarantee… so you have nothing to loose but your old ways! Take advantage now.

CLICK HERE

After all, where you will be on the 21st October 2009 is your choice!

Your Xqisit Inspirational Quote
Monday 20th October, 2008

Creating a feeling of value & self-worth !
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“Courage and perseverance have a magic talisman, before which obstacles vanish into thin air.”

~ John Quincy Adams

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A Sense Of Direction

What Do You Really Want?

Dear Fellow Achiever

How excited is it to be in control of your life and actions? Today we will continue to develop the NEW YOU! As you continue on your journey of life, utilize the ‘Xqisit Messages‘ to build one upon the other.

THE ROAD TO SUCCESS IS ALWAYS UNDER CONSTRUCTION

Today we’re going to be looking at the ability to identify what you desire. By identifying what you desire you can focus your attention on ‘What You Want’.

Every thought you have is either negative or positive.

What a remarkable statement!

Think about that for a second. Every word you SAY or THINK is either NEGATIVE or POSITIVE!

Which one best describes you?

Today you are going to learn how to make “What you want” match your thoughts!

It is vital to your success to briefly observe the negative thoughts you have and identify them as something you don’t want. By doing so, you become clearer about ‘WHAT YOU DO WANT’ (POSITIVE THOUGHTS).

Observing this contrast is essential because it helps you become clear about what you do want. You are experiencing clarity when ever you observe contrast in your life. These are small steps, which will put your journey on the right path.

A wise man once said “A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step”. Knowing this to be true you are taking your first steps today. You are now charting your course and your destiny will be assured.

Instead of saying what you don’t want; make the decision today, to say, “What you do want”.

First thing you need to do is take a minute and write down all of the things where you feel unsatisfied.

Examples: I can’t close a sale, I don’t have enough money, I wish I was in better shape, I don’t have enough time.

Now, on another page, replace your negative statement with a positive statement?

Examples: I can close a sale, I will make a way to get the money, I will exercise everyday, I will make the time.

By doing these exercises you will build the confidence to create the results you desire!

To Your Success!

Gerald Alexander

Call me today – 07940 220 283

http://www.ASenseOfDirection.co.uk/

P.S. If you know a friend, family member, or associate you think may benefit from this information, send this to them immediately.

Comments? Leave them here on my blog – - I want to know what you’re thinking: www.XQISITLIFESTYLES.com

Xqisit Lifestyles
Website: www.ASENSEOFDIRECTION.co.uk
Tel: 07940 220 283
Email: gerald@xqisit-lifestyles.com

If we did all the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves.

MAKE YOURSELF MORE VALUABLE!

Remember: If you have enjoyed this inspirational message, pass it on to a few of your friends and business associates, and if you have any comments about this message, PLEASE — leave them here on my blog — it’s important you let me know your thoughts!

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RECOMMENDED LINKS
—————————————————————————————————————-

www.liveyourdream.com

www.theAchieversEdge.com

www.ASenseOfDirection.com

www.ADegreeOfDifference.com

www.NLPSecret.com

—————————————————————————————————————-

(c) Copyright, Gerald Alexander & Xqisitlifestyles.com (R) 2008

Gerald Alexander

http://Xqisit-Lifestyles.co.uk (R)
11 Jura Quadrant, Netherton, Wishaw
Lanarkshire, ML2 0TD, United Kingdom
gerald@xqisit-lifestyles.com

www.asenseofdirection.co.uk (R)

Any purchase you make from this website is fully backed, no-hassle, satisfaction guarantee… so you have nothing to loose but your old ways! Take advantage now.

CLICK HERE

After all, where you will be on the 20th October 2009 is your choice!